They say that each experience is a learning process, but let’s be real. Some experiences have been experienced before, so nothing new there. Well, maybe you are learning something about the difference in reaction, from one experience to the other. I ramble!
Hurray again for Nigeria being 50! On my Twitter, during the celebrations, I tweeted
“They call is arrogant, I call it confident #NigeriaAt50”
This sums up my post for today. All too often I hear Nigerians, referred to as being “arrogant” and inasmuch as there are a few black sheep. I disagree. Instead, I think of it as being confident. Nigerians in general I find to be pretty confident, we see our self-worth and take pride in ourselves, our appearance and our work. Maybe some of this is due to our large numbers all over the world where we tend to aggregate and offer support to each other. Personally, I don’t see anything wrong with it especially in our world today. It is so important to love yourself, so that you do not get lost in the myriad of trends. Where am I going with this?
Well recently, I have started to view myself as an asset in my Career-life. I don’t view any job (volunteer or paid) as an opportunity. I see it as a channel to display my skills and personality. Therefore, if I don’t get the job I don’t see it as a missed opportunity, I view it as the establishment missing out on an asset. Because I know what skills I’ve learned and what I can bring to the table. And any job I get will be a step in my personal growth to improve my value as an asset. The break-even point will be the point at which I have received all the possible improvements I can get from a position and any time after that becomes a loss to my growth.
Hey I’m a Finance Student; I have to think this way. I just feel like recently, the people I’ve worked with have inferred that I am an asset to them and not just an employee which got me thinking. Maybe I am an addition to the team as opposed to the team doing me a favor.
Think about the value you add to your work/volunteer place and maybe you’ll see what I mean. It might be how fast you are at typing or maybe how easily you handles problems or how you accept instructions without complaints. Wave goodbye to the days of enslaving yourself by work and embrace the notion of increasing the value of yourself as an asset!
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Have a lovely week
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13 comments:
Your hair looks amazing!!!
Sugabelly::: Thanks miss! i must admit it's not my real one. But it is my ideal! Still Keeping on!
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Yes o, naija people have swagger. I like the outfit.
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U LOOK NICE DEARIE. I MUST AGREE WITH U THAT NIGERIANS ARE SURE CONFIDENT PPLE.
Prism:: Thanks thanks! lol at the use of "swagger"! It kind of is that actually!
Fragile::: YES WE ARE! thanks babe!
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You look great, I saw some pics on FB too. Keep rocking!
I agree with all you've said. SO TRUE! It's not a thing of pride to view oneself as an asset, anything less is injustice to God and yourself. I loveee it all and will keep the words close as I'm in a transitioning phase in my life... Any institution/body that does not accept me would be losing out, and a great deal at that. :D
Myne::: You did?? Where? Thanks thanks luv!
DAVID::: Lovely to hear miss. I love "It's not a thing of pride to view oneself as an asset, anything less is injustice to God and yourself"
People should really stop feeling guilty about loving themselves. Vanity is another thing but genuine love for your 'self' and God-given talents opens you up to more opportunities for growth that you may have missed.
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love love love your nail color!
Wow i love your blog! I saw your designs through Barry Thoms, your creations are so beautiful, where can i get them in Ottawa?!?!?!?! I love that skirt with the lips!!! Girl, i'm dying...help, i love it!
Leslie: Thanks leslie! I'm in the loving my nails phase.
Marcia::: Hi Marcia! Thanks so much. My email address is dionemauve@gmail.com. That's how orders are placed. Excited by response. thanks!!Lol @ dying... haha
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Hey great post. Thought I'm not sure I agree with you 100%. Keep em coming. Are you interested in having anyone guest post opposing views?
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