Wednesday, April 6, 2011

Out with the old,In with the new

Brief escape from blogsville. Again I blame it on life just HAPPENING. Last week, I had my last class of undergrad and I am beyond excited. I still have a final exam but I am floating. Lifted by the knowledge that Finance through punches, I ducked and threw in a K.O. I really give thanks to God that undergrad was a beautiful experience for me....I'm already talking like a graduate and I'm not there yet. lol.

The scary part of being done is embracing novelty. I hear that graduates aren't babied at all. They...umm... We are treated like adults. Tbh, I'm not interested. I'd like to go back to school and learn a WHOLE lot more. Out with undergrad, in with life. Another thing I know will change now is my reduced sense of security. My Uni campus is a HAVEN! I literally leave my purse on my chair unattended. I always say that anything that goes missing on campus was not stolen, but lost. In Nigeria, on the other hand, I hook my hand underneath my purse tightly. I don't even try to hold it like a BABE.Out with Carefree, In with Careful!

Moving home after being away must be a huge change and I'm not talking about not being able to wear short shorts or tiny skirts. I am talking about re-adjusting to life; fast-paced, the plethora of culture and religion, the recollection of values and ideals and taboos. Call me old school but I can't wait for a society that looks constantly to God. Canada can't even begin to boast about that; We say 'Happy Holidays' instead of Merry Christmas for goodness' sake so that on one is offended. This is the way the society over here operates and is sustained. I can't wait for MY OWN society's modus operandi.

LOL ---- I know I used unnecessary words in my rant like 'plethora' and 'modus operandi'. Blame #Nollywood oh! I've been watching too many movies where people use the wrong words at the wrong time. I don't even know why I'm still glued to the computer watching them. I admit #Nollywood is my #guiltypleasure. Especially my home-girl TONTO DIKEH! lol

BTW my mum said someone asked her if she was Ijeoma's mum during an interview for an NYSC job. The person talked about reading my blog and everything I had to say about my mum. It is a minute world. Whoever you are, big shout out! My mum can't be prouder of how proud I am of her!

Please no giggles at my outfit in these pictures, people said I looked like Hilary from Fresh Prince of Bel Air. I'd like to think I gave her a bit of a rockstar edge.. :-D











I'm growing a lot nowadays. Reconnecting with friends and discovering myself . So I know I'm always going to be Ijay, Take me as I am!
Be Good peoples....

Yours Truantly,
Ij

13 comments:

Myne Whitman said...

We have to keep evolving, cos that's the only way to catch up with what life throws at us.

Cool pics too.

Iphie said...

Yeah!! Congratulations. I missed your posts! So, now that undergrad is over, there shall be more episodes of your blogging diarrhea, right? haha

Yankeenaijababe said...

You go girlfriend, loving that outfit and congrats, wow!!! Good for YA

Amanda said...

LOve the post!!!! you just aired my mind.. abt becoming a graduate! Whew!!

Ms.Ken said...

Congrats! cant wait 4 my turn. but u've kinda perfected dis OTT leap sha, it doesn't even seem stressful to get it right nemore.
Wishin u d best in life!am sure we'll be hearing more abt u n not jus from ur blog.

aeedeeaee said...

Congratulations...I'm about to go back to school myself...*shivers* Oh well...

I love your pictures...and that leap (o_O)

Adaeze said...

congratulations! I cant wait for that day myself....u moving back to naija or u mean back home with ur folks?

U did look like her, but yes u did give her a rocky edge, confirmed...:-p

Dione Mauve said...
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bob-ij said...

Myne::: yes please! Lol. I'm happy to evolve. I embrace change.

Iphie::: loool! That's how you lknow people read your blogs. More diarrhea to come! Hahahahahha. Thanks!

YNC::: haha..thanks luv.

Amanda::: haha. The relief is unbelievable! Thank God!

~x~

bob-ij said...

Ms Ken::: haha! I have oh. For sure, I'm not going anywhere...lol

Aeedeeaee::: Very special name oh! haha! Thanks thanks! yay to going back to school.

Adaeze::: I'm visiting Nigeria. No, not moving yet but soon enough... haha thanks.. I didn't want to be bimbo hilary! lol

~x~

kitkat said...

aww lovely pics and are u planning to go back home immediately ur done with school? gluck with that :)

maphi said...

i love the outfit !!! so cute xoxo

Anya Posh said...

they say change is constant; this just proves that you're a quality somebody willing to grow and evolve :)