On my mind...

On my mind today is the fact that as humans we get mad over the silliest things. Your friend stole your Aldo Earrings? She didn't give you a birthday present. Come on. People are stealing people's husband's, children, opportunities in life. Deal! I guess personalities are different so I don't want to come off as insensitive to others' preferences. I'll speak from my own perspective; so please indulge me. It's probably the kind of friends I have. They offer no apologies for use and following theft taking of property and they are quick too give it to someone else that likes it. lol. I've learned not to cherish anything to be honest. I guess what I'm saying is that we need to focus on the essential things in life. Granted, some things are out of bounds like presents from my Mum or Dad, etc. And as my true friends, they are aware of this. In my opinion: Friendships and acquaintances (if I may), should not be lost of possessions. 


P.S. I am obviously assuming there is no underlying tension in your friendship. If there is, that's a WHOLE different story. 


They say that "Every cloud has a silver lining", but they aren't always easy to see. And who wants to draw joy from sorrow? I say it all the time to people and they almost punch my ears. Thank God we are not in the same place, I'd be nursing a black eye by now. lol. Yes! I have violent girlfriends. loool. JOKES!
For that unsuccessful application, missed flight, etc., there is a silver lining. I think I'm done with sporting that though to be honest. I can only imagine how irritated people were/are at that statement! Eek! They should have just yelled "I don't want to see the good right now, I want to vent!"
 So I've decided to adopt a new role. The vent-board/listener
And then when the steam runs out, we'll call it a day! How's that for a silver lining. :-|


Having said that, I would like to state plainly that I will KILL any friend that steals my newest treasure in my closet! lol. Yes! They are "heel-less" shoes. I tend to veer away from the norm for my shoe selection. I'm loving this but I haven't worn it out yet. Looking for a way to wear it and look sane. I don't want an all-out GAGA look.

Any ideas on the rock-ability of my new shoes, I'll call her "Nma"  Please DO NOT address her as "IT"
#justsaying


Here's to a lovely Labour Day Weekend! I will tell you ALL about mine. Hoping to have a beautiful weekend.


p.s. As per updates on Member, she's still having surgeries and responding to treatment. I will give any future updates. Thanks again for your prayers for her and her family! God Bless!


Yours Truantly,

Ij